Author: Abigail Lokum

FWB Boundary Rules
No sleepovers, no date-like activities, minimal texting. The women who make FWB work treat it like a scheduled…

Ghosted After Oral
He disappeared right after the best head of his life. Rude. Also common. Why some men treat skilled…

Selfish Sex Club
Wanting hours of attention while giving nothing back used to feel like feminist betrayal. Turns out it’s just…

One Way Selfish Sex
Wanting filthy greedy one-sided focus used to feel like bad feminism. Now it just feels like not settling…

One Bad Night And You’re Out
One mediocre night is enough for a lot of women to walk. The advice is blunt: you don’t…

Faked It Again
You moaned, he finished, you made tea. The orgasm gap is still real and still boring. Here’s how…

Unpaid Intern Boyfriend
Calendar, therapist, audience, alibi, proof of worth. Too many jobs for one noun. Those roles can revert to…

Other Woman Reveal
Finding out you’re the side piece after weeks of flirting and nudes. Most comments say tell the girlfriend…

Consent Is Foreplay
Asking “is this good?” and meaning it, checking in, stopping when she says so. Turns out clear communication…

